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What a great question! In this context, a “rule” would be a way of life or a set of guidelines to help direct your path, like a lantern on a dark road. When we first hear the word “rule,” it may come off as negative and oppressive, but this is just the opposite! 
St. John Paul II knew, even fifty years ago, that living our Christian faith in an increasingly anti-Christian culture, would require a higher level of virtue. In other words, we would need extra help! This Rule was meant to be that extra help, to guide spouses to know “how” to live the truth. It is one thing to understand “why” something is true intellectually, but to know “how” to live it out in the messiness of everyday life is more challenging. The Rule is the key to unlocking that “how” and moving beyond the struggle and find lasting joy!
St. John Paul II points the way to the profound holiness possible for spouses, and as this conjugal spirituality grows, he says, spouses can be so united that they have but one interior life!
Our book introduces the Rule, helps unpack it and examine what applying this Rule to your marriage might look like.

Yes! It is so exciting! All three texts were part of a collection of works of St. John Paul II that were only recently rediscovered during the cause for his canonization. Our book includes the “Rule for Married Couple Groups” in Part One and two other texts: “Reflections on Marriage” & “Love is the Moral Foundation of Marriage” in Part Two, which were written within the same decade as the Rule.
Our book uses St. John Paul II’s own words from these other two texts to more fully understand what he meant within the Rule. The Rule itself is only six points.

La Regla de San Juan Pablo II da a los cónyuges la clave para descubrir cómo vivir auténticamente su fe, crecer en la espiritualidad conyugal (su relación unida con Dios) y encontrar la alegría duradera.

St. John Paul II’s Rule for Married Couple Groups is simple, but profound. He begins by explaining that this Rule was prompted by the promulgation of Humanae Vitae. 
He desires, through this Rule, to help couples live out this beautiful teaching that contains the theological core of all teaching on human love and sexuality. He also explains that it was created from understanding the experiences of actual couples he has helped as well as the theology of the Church, so we see this balance between the real and the ideal (something we see in his other writings as well). The following points explain the involvement of both spouses, and that this is not anything new necessarily, but simply allowing couples to more fully live out their Christian faith. The Rule’s main purpose is to build the couple’s conjugal spirituality, which is their united relationship with God. He says, spouses can be so united that they have but one interior life. (How beautiful would that be!) Prayer, going outward in loving service, and a formal commitment to the Rule are all part of the Rule as well.

San Juan Pablo II escribió la Regla justo después de la promulgación de HV . Vio que HV contenía el núcleo de la verdad de todas las enseñanzas sobre el amor y la sexualidad y, por lo tanto, el propósito de la Regla es ayudar a las parejas a “ actuar ”, o hacer realidad esta enseñanza dentro de su vida cotidiana. Él mismo dijo que los Grupos de Matrimonios que viven la Regla también podrían llamarse con razón Grupos de Humanae Vitae .

Reading the Rule and his other two texts, you would be surprised they were written fifty years ago! He speaks of an increasingly anti-Christian culture and of the world pressing in upon faithful couples, and how it can feel like a “dead end” for us to hold onto the truth of our faith. He did write this over fifty years ago, but reading it, it sounds like it was written for married couples today! Perhaps God saved it for exactly the time it would be most needed. (The late Dr. Stanisław Grygiel, personal friend of JPII, said exactly this in his endorsement of our book: “Great texts are like treasures that are excavated from hidden places often after many years, yet precisely in the time that has need of them and, in which, they can be best understood.  This text is "The Rule for Married Couple Groups” written by St. John Paul II, which spouses, Theresa and Peter Martin, offer us in The Rule; they offer it together with their own wise reflection, born of their experience of the spiritual life, proper to married and family life.”)

La espiritualidad conyugal es la relación entre Dios y los esposos, unidos como uno solo. Esta nueva relación se forma a través del Sacramento del Matrimonio. ¡Esta unión espiritual real puede ser tan profunda, dice Juan Pablo II, que los esposos tienen una sola vida interior! La espiritualidad conyugal es también la clave para encontrar una alegría y una paz inquebrantables en su matrimonio. ¡La Regla ayuda a desbloquear este maravilloso don de la gracia!

La singularidad de la WCI se encuentra en La Regla para grupos de parejas casadas escrita por San Juan Pablo II .
Escribió La Regla para ayudar a las parejas a apoyarse mutuamente para vivir la verdad de la Humanae Vitae . Reconoció la necesidad de la comunidad para que las parejas puedan compartir sus luchas reales y apoyarse mutuamente en nuestro camino hacia la santidad.
¡La Regla permite a las parejas no solo seguir las reglas de nuestra fe, sino orientarnos completamente a Cristo, profundizar nuestra espiritualidad conyugal y vivir nuestra fe con alegría duradera! No existe otra comunidad en la Iglesia que haya tomado la Regla del Cardenal Wojtyła y la haya implementado de manera formal.